Encountering and Offering

I recently had the opportunity to walk the streets of Baltimore and meet 13 individuals. 

Imagine how many people walk past them, trying to ignore the fact that they are there – hey I’m guilty of it. It’s rare, the person who stops and introduces themselves to them and asks how they’re doing. I’m glad I got the opportunity to do this ministry. 

I used to think the only thing I could offer to them was money or food. When I didn’t have that, I felt bad. I met a woman that shared her story and we prayed together. During our prayer, she started to tear up – I can just tell God was present in that moment. She thanked me for stopping by and for listening to her story. That’s when it struck me! I do have something to offer, a hello and a listening ear. 

I got to talk to the people I encountered, get their names, and hear their stories. People appreciate conversations, the words “Hi, what’s your name” or “How are you?” We’re currently in a loneliness epidemic, and although most of us have friends and family to talk to, imagine those who don’t. I invite you to say “Hi” to a stranger, that family member you haven’t talked to in a while, or even that person on the street. I’m sure whoever it is, they’ll appreciate you for simply reaching out and taking the time to say “Hello”. You never know what anyone is really going through, or if they’re feeling lonely or forgotten. 

Let’s be honest, most of the time, we might find it inconvenient to stop and start a conversation with people, especially strangers, but this is when we need to be doing it the most, when it’s not convenient or desirable. We are called to love, but not just those who are easy to love; we are called to love those who might seem hard to love. 

Question for Reflection: Think of someone who might be feeling lonely. How can you talk to them or make time to be present with them this week?